Of mirrors of the self

He mirrors your estimate of him. What you see of him is sometimes nothing but a reflection of whatever it is you want to see. If you are that person who sees trust and honesty and all virtues- all things beautiful, that is what you will get, much to your happiness, fulfillment and growth. Conversely, if it is baseness that you seek within him, you may only just see that. He may do nothing to change your mind, nothing at all to affect your free will, even when he seeks you out.